A Step By Step Guide On How To Prepare For Squirting: Messy? Maybe Hot? Definitely.

Put your finger inside of her, locate the g-spot, and gently pulse your finger back and forth in the “come hither” motion. If you try to find her g-spot too early before she’s fully aroused, her g-spot won’t be fully erect, you won’t be able to find it, and you won’t be able to make her come. I literally cannot stress enough how important it is to give her time to relax and fully open to the possibilities of pleasure. Make sure all 5 of her senses will be happy and put at ease. The sheets should feel clean and smooth on her skin. There shouldn’t be any distracting sounds or other people in the house.

Once it’s in, have your girl take the driver seat and thrust/grind to her preferred pace and depth. If you want her to squirt and climax all at the same time, you might wanna go for this trick. If you can stimulate it properly, good chances you can make your partner squirt in pleasure. However, due to its location, it may be challenging to do so. Circular motions or up-and-down strokes often work wonders.

By following these steps, you’re not just giving her more than one orgasm—you’re creating a deeper connection and giving her an experience she’ll never forget. As you can see from the illustration above, you should insert your index and middle finger inside her. The inserted fingers should be slightly curled up, providing pressure to her G-spot area.

This is going to strain your hand a lot so it’s good if you build up your hand. You have to use your dominant hand, so if your right handed, use your right hand, if you’re left handed use your left hand. Even my right hand will start to cramp because you need to do this consistently and with a lot of pressure and you can’t let up. So as she is coming closer and closer to orgasm, you’ve got to really put a lot of pressure into it like this.

Use lubricant freely to ensure everything moves smoothly and wonderfully. A report from the Indiana University’s Center for Sexual Health Promotion says nearly two-thirds of women use a lubricant during sex. Out of these, nearly half were of the opinion that use of a lube helped them orgasm. Keep in mind, the lube you are using goes well with yourself, your partner, and your sex toys. The G-spot is (generally) located towards the anterior wall (front) of your vagina, usually a few inches from the vaginal opening. Try inserting a finger into the vagina, and look for something that is small, soft, and spongy to the touch.

Of course, using sex toys remains the simplest and most enjoyable method of hitting the g-spot and bringing a girl to a squirting orgasm. However you experience orgasm, you’re doing it correctly. Even if you don’t have orgasms and simply experience pleasure-only, that’s awesome. Feel free to experiment how to make a female squirt, but as long as you’re feeling pleasure and enjoying your sex life, you’re doing on the right track. It’s important to remember that squirting is not necessary for sexual pleasure or orgasm. The ability to squirt can vary from person to person due to anatomical and physiological differences and individual responses to sexual stimulation.

You can really tease your partner by giving them breathy little fairy kisses around their vulva and glans clitoris or even just breathing warm air over their clit, Dr. O’Reilly says. From there, build things up by essentially making out with their nub, Dr. Nolan says. A little elevation will provide better access to your G-Spot and clitoris at the same time. Because you’re going to be ejaculating, you are probably going to want to have a towel down as well, or at least nearby, to prevent too much of a mess.

I believe that every woman can learn to squirt assuming she has the necessary physical attributes. That is, a functioning bladder, Skene’s glands, and urethra. Squirting fluid is a combination of urine and fluid from the Skene’s glands which is ejected—often forcefully—from the urethra. Female ejaculation is only fluid from the Skene’s glands and it’s often ejected less forcefully, in a trickle or drip. Oh, and by the way, squirting is also different from female ejaculation. I’m here to tell you that while squirting fluids do contain urine, it’s not the same as urination.

Combine this with fingering to create a textured, unique sensation. The contrast between your fingers and the pearls heightens her pleasure, building toward an intense climax. Once there, softly twirl your finger around it, starting slow and gentle. Gradually increase pressure based on her comfort, as some women find this deeply pleasurable, while others may find it too intense. Use both hands to glide over her vulva, stimulating the entire area with smooth, gentle movements.

In fact, a study of women who have squirted in the past found that 41.8% of squirters were worried that they were peeing and 28.3% were worried that they would make a mess [13]. If you are unable to communicate these roadblocks to your partner, they won’t be able to help you to overcome them and actually squirt (and have good sex). To get into the Bent Spoon position, your partner will first lie down on their back. They need to bend their legs slightly and place their feet firmly on the bed/ground. Both will provide different types of stimulation to your G Spot and help you squirt. Give your partner feedback so they know what you prefer.