How to Squirt: A Step-by-Step Guide for Women
For many women, the experience of self-pleasure doesn’t always align with partnered sex. Studies show that most women include vaginal stimulation during partnered sex, but fewer do so when masturbating. Additionally, women who use sexual aids, toys, or fantasies when masturbating may not do so during partnered sex. Since most heterosexual women don’t orgasm from vaginal penetration alone, the gap between masturbation and penetrative sex can sometimes be frustrating. However, you should know that the doggy style is one of the most powerful sex positions that can help you in making a woman squirt.
While someone can squirt, it doesn’t mean they’re having an orgasm. As I mentioned earlier in the guide how to make a women squirt, a female squirting study was undertaken in 2022, “confirming the bladder as the source” [1]. Further research found that squirting happens when your clitoris/vagina is being stimulated, resulting in the “squirting of a larger amount of diluted and changed urine” [3].
It sounds silly I know, but it’s easy to get dehydrated when you’re coming buckets. It’s not much good if you are open and willing but your partner is judgemental and close-minded. It also promotes the release of regenerating and emotionally bonding hormones into the bloodstream. You will need a partner who sees things this way as well. Kegels, as discussed earlier, will give you more confidence that you won’t pee.
That same study published in Sweden asked the 28 participants about their first squirting experiences. Have you ever experienced the need to pee during sex but paused because you were worried you might actually pee? Chances are you were well on your way to squirting.
Most of my clients have had no issue trying this position in the past. The only problem that could occur is that you are either too tall to comfortably reach her spot without bending very far down. Aftercare is important because of how intense this experience can be. Be supportive, make her feel at ease, and don’t forget to pull out so the fluid expels. With that in mind, there are things you can do to enhance her arousal prior to your session.